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What Should You Know Before You Book A Private Sādhana (साधन) Session.

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What Should You Know Before You Book A Private Sādhana (साधन) Session. A Sādhana (साधन) Session is NOT an Erotic Massage Session. First of all, don’t get all caught up in crazy ideas about an erotic massage with a “happy end.” A Homoerotic Tantrs℠:Mascul-IN-Touch℠ sādhana (साधन) is a spiritual practice that does, in fact use sensory stimulation in the physical bodywork but it has nothing whatsoever to do with the commercial “services” offered under the moniker of “tāntric massage,” “tāntric love,” “sacred sex,” or any of the other misleading and deceptive labels used to disguise the fact that it’s cheap sex for sale. Giving cheap sex an exotic name doesn’t change a thing; it’s still cheap sex. If that’s what you are looking for, you’re barking up the wrong pole. What Sort of Men Ask for Spiritual Guidance? Men who are awake enough to be aware that they need more and can be more than they have been. These men are certainly a small part of the general population but the

Men Need to Learn How to Touch Other Men

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Three new articles on homoerotic touch and touching have been added to the available learning materials on Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch . Learn How to Touch Other Men with Ecstasy The articles are part of the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch program materials offered to followers and registered users of the program. The new titles include: Working with Vulnerability through Tantric Touch The Components of Skillful Homoerotic Tāntric Touch Taking Touch and Giving Touch Erotic Touch — Creating Homoerotic Ecstasy with Touch Summary of the Articles The Authoritative Manual of Homoerotic Tantra :Mascul-IN-Touch ℠  The Components of Skillful Homoerotic T ā ntric Touch :   The Components of Skillful Homoerotic T ā ntric Touch. T o understand Tāntric touching skills you must understand the science and philosophies of traditional yoga ( योग ) , some understanding of Āyurveda ( आयुर्वेद ) , and certainly the philosophy and science of Tantra ( तन्त्र ) ; if

Salvaging Our Masculinity

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A D ā ka Aside … It's not what you think it is. It's not how you're doing it. Men need to seriously scrutinize their behavior and do some damage control before it's too late. We are the images of divine masculinity, we are gods but are acting like a pack of dogs in heat. Freaks like this are giving us all a bad name! This is an excerpt from the recent Dharma Guidance posted by Daka Karuna on the Tantra for Gay and Bisexual Men site. It's a tough, objective look at the depraved direction men are taking on social media like Twitter, and the reinforcement of the stereotype of gay men as perverts and predators. We are not perverts and predators; we are gods but so very few of us act the part. Time we did some damage control and time we grow up and take adult, mature responsibility for our group! Excerpt... There’s no one who appreciates and worships masculine beauty more than I do. I love beauty so much that it has become a spiritual experience fo
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Solo-cultivation: Touch — Self-exploration in Preparation for Dual-cultivation. Summary Most men have been conditioned to be ashamed and guilty when touching themselves or exploring their bodies. That is what cultural conditioning has done to western men and masculinity; it’s been made shameful and dirty. But the male body is a gift of perfect natural design, beautiful and divine! To be fully masculine you have to learn to be comfortable with your physical body, and the emotions you can awaken by knowing your body. Your male body is a miracle of nature’s design, it is a divine figure, filled with masculine energy, power, and spirit. Chances are you have no clue how your own touch can make you feel or you are just plain afraid to experience the unfamiliar emotions you’ll feel once you start touching yourself. Get a grip! Along with the divine masculine principle (Śiva) you, as a man, are also powered by the complementary divine feminine principle (Śakti); both the masc

So. You Think You're a Warrior. Part II

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So. You think you’re a Warrior? Part II In Part I, I provided some historical and legendary background to what it means to be a Warrior. In Part II, I go more into depth about what it means to be a Tāntric Warrior. In order to have a better understanding of what I mean when I describe a tantric man to be a Warrior, you need to be familiar with a couple of tāntric concepts that form the basis of the homoerotic tāntric typologies of men. ________________________________________ Lord Shiva ॐ नमः शिवाय Om Namah Shivaya |  ________________________________________ In the Sanātanadharma (सनातनधर्म) doctrine of the guṇa‑s , the brāhmaṇatā (ब्राह्मणता) (priest caste) corresponds to the sattva (सत्त्व), or equipoise, balance harmony, goodness or virtuousness, while the Warrior (kṣatriya (क्षत्रिय)) or hero (vīra (वीर)) is identified with the neutral quality of rajas (रजस्),  or passions,  and all other guṇa‑s people are included under the influence of tamas (तमस्)  , or base ins

So. You Think You're a Warrior. Part I

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The Homoerotic Kṣatriyadharma (क्षत्रियधर्म) The Way of the Warrior Homoerotic Tantra℠ :Mascul-IN-Touch℠ dharma means you are using everything available to you for living and loving right. Lord Shiva ॐ नमः शिवाय Om Namah Shivaya | So. You Think You’re a Warrior? Part I This first part of a two-part article discusses the concept of the Warrior in history and legend. It is intended to draw an important contrast between what historically has been known as the Warrior type and today’s diluted concept of the warrior. Most men today would be left in the dust of even the warrior’s shield bearer or, at best, be the warrior’s boy-bitch. Men today just don’t toe the mark when it comes to being anything close to warrior material. Be that as it may be, it is generally agreed that the vast majority of men do not leave the anal-genital typology of the animal-man. In Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch℠ we make some important distinctions in how we approach the problem of he

Tantric Typologies of Men

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As gay and bisexual men, we must become aware of how we present ourselves on social media, and reflect on what our sharing tells us about our inner self. Traditional Tantra (तन्त्र) provides us with a typology of men and a set of qualities called the triguṇa (त्रिगुण) or the three characteristics. These typologies and the guṇa‑s are further associated with the cakra-s  (चक्र). This upadeśa (उपदेश) or spiritual guidance essay teaches in broad strokes what may be described as a major problem in becoming awakened to an evolved masculinity. ________________________________________ Since deciding to use social media, in this case Twitter, to promote my programs in Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch℠ I have been impressed – I don’t mean necessarily positively – by the disappointing number of men who are totally off the planet with their silly antics of masturbating into their smartphones and broadcasting their ejaculations, unabashed anal intercourse with every detail painstakingly reco

Personal Preparation of Your Sacred Space

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A Sacred Space is Just a Space until You Enter it;  You make it Sacred The Sadhana module on Preparation of the Sacred Space - Personal Preparation, is now available at the gaymentantra.wordpress.com private site. Please go to that URL and follow the instructions to request access to the private site and to the program materials available there. Click here to go to the site now.

Our Code of Conduct

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Homoerotic Tantra and Mascul-IN-Touch are all about truth and becoming a Tantric Warrior . You can't do that with so many people unless you have some way of declaring what you are all about, where you want to go, and how to get there. Most tantra programs are open-door; they have no real foundation, and are simply providing a service to satisfy the ignorant with no interest in evolving beyond the animal phase of existence. We are bombarded with offerings of exotic or tantric massage, sacred sexuality, and the like. Quickies for a buck. Homoerotic Tantra and Mascul-IN-Touch are different. We are men-who-love-men and who are aspiring to greater self-awareness and we make a commitment to evolve out of the status quo, stripping ourselves of all the toxic cultural conditioning and stereotyping, to achieve liberation of our divine masculinity. If all that we say is true and our objectives are what we say they are, we need to accept and agree on a roadmap. That roadmap and guida

Are You Tantric? Self-Assessment

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Are You Tantric? It's taken some time and some experimentation but I think we have finally found the right questions to assess a man's potential for success in Homoerotic Tantra. The self-assessment can be viewed/downloaded by clicking this link: Am I Tantric? Please complete the questionnaire and follow the instructions at the end of the form. The second phase will include self-assessments for arousal and the six chakras with emphasis on the lower 3 chakras and the heart chakra. The fun has only just started! Good luck! and Welcome in advance!

Revised Homoerotic Tantthe ra:Mascul-IN-Touch 2020 Modules

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During February 2020, the new and revised set of Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch program resources and modules will be uploaded in summary form on this site. The complete texts and the associated PDF documents for your manual notebooks will be made available only on the private site at gaymenttantra.wordpress.com. The site at gaymentantra.wordpress.com is a private site, which means that access is restricted to men who have been approved for access based on a personal request. It's very simple, though. All you have to do is go to the site and follow the instructions for requesting access. Daka Karuna will receive your request and will generally approve access. From that point on you will have access to all of the newest posts, pages, articles, comments, documents, etc.regularly published for followers and sisyas of HET:MIT. I anticipate that the first modules to be uploaded will be the self-assessments, which I recommend you complete as soon as possible. They are for you

Just a Pole and a Hole

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I recently refreshed my Twitter account, hoping to take advantage of an outlet to encourage bi and gay men to discover themselves and to restore their divine masculine spirit. What I found was something like pervs on the loose! Guys swinging their equipment as if they were some sort of wind chime, masturbating, ejaculating, copulating, and exposing their portals. When I regained consciousness, my first question was: "What is the message they are sending?" Are You Just a Pole and a Hole? Honestly, I spend most of my life and a good portion of my resourced teaching the sacredness of our male bodies and our masculinity. It's an uphill battle in a culture that places more value on a new electronic device for making fake friends than spending 5 minutes a day meditating to become aware of who and what they are. I realize that men today are under incredible pressure to be something that runs counter to their very nature; men in western culture are not only repressed,

The New 2020 Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch Program

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An Update on the New 2020 Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch ℠ Program Dāka Karuṇā दाक करुणा (William) The entire Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch ℠ program will comprise approximately 35 modules as shown in the table below. The Sādhana ( साधन) Exercises comprise a group that is entirely separate from the Homoerotic Tantra ℠ modules, and represent the Mascul-IN-Touch ℠ component of the program. Module Homoerotic Tantra℠   Modules [*] 0 Mascul-IN-Touch℠ Sadhana Exercises 1 Aromatherapy 2 Assessments 3 Chakras 4 Deities + Avatars 5 Elements + Energy 6 Gay Daka Karuna 7 Gender issues - Tritya Prakriti 8 General Interest 9 Generational Issues - Age Discordance 10 Language of Homoerotic Tantra℠ 11 Homoerotic Yogic Tantra Culture 12 Homoerotic Themes (Gay + Homosexual) 13 Inti