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Why men should prefer partners more mature, older than themselves.

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Advance Tip on an Upcoming Article I am going to write about this important topic from the standpoint of the more mature partner's role as mentor, protector, stabilizer for the younger man. When I refer to a younger man, I won't be writing about man-boy love or men who are not at a psychological or mental level of development that allows them to move beyond childish infatuation or adolescent confusion; I will be discussing younger men who are well-adjusted, secure, good in their skins, and who have self-respect and can take charge of their lives without having to be dependent. The older man is the partner who has the life experience and knowledge, practical and/or academic, and the wisdom to be mentor to the younger man. This type of relationship is built on a concept of beauty and eroticism expressed in trusting and awareness, surrender to each other in physical and emotional, as well as spiritual touching and sharing; both explore the other, surrendering himself to the other ...

Age is Beauty: Benefits of Younger-Older Relationships

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Older Men are Simply HOT! When I see a salt-and-pepper handsome face, healthy, a little arrogant, well-groomed and cared for, has a bit of spunk in his stride, looks like he takes pride in his mind and body, his spirit sends that message. He's HOT! Please note: The complete article has been moved to the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch website . Please visit that site to access the complete updated article. If you experience any trouble accessing the new website, please email Gay Daka Karuna (William) and request access authorization. I often find it a bit incomprehensible that some guys are interested in twinks or 20-somethings, and seem to be so uninterested in older guys. It just seems so much more natural and sensible for someone to be attracted to a handsome, fit, daddy than to an immature, confused twit. I've already written a piece on agism and playing the stupid numbers game and how shallow and useless it is. All that having been said, it's sometimes just necessar...

Cum More & Stay Healthy

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Please note: The complete article has been moved to the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch website . Please visit that site to access the complete updated article. If you experience any trouble accessing the new website, please email Gay Daka Karuna (William) and request access authorization. My whole philosophy about relationships and intimacy may fall through the cracks after you read this but please don't think that I've changed my mind about anything having to do how we can manage spirituality in our most intimate moments, using that sexual spirituality to increase our ecstasy when sharing with a lover. Normally, I would say hold off on ejaculating for as long as possible, practicing cum control (I'll be writing about that soon) until the very end and then exploding, while experiencing multiple orgasm-like moments throughout the session. Male orgasm is not cumming; cumming is ejaculating, shooting your cum load. Orgasm is that transcendent experience you have just befor...

A Prologue

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[caption id="attachment_27" align="aligncenter" width="300"] Touch is Communication, Inquiry, Exploration. [/caption] Welcome, Friend: This blog is about gay male relationship and spirituality, a Tantra of Gay Companionship . Please make this effort a success by sharing honestly and generously. Leave a comment on any of my posts or write something of your own for publishing here. Please forward all texts for publishing or any graphics to me at pedicatio.et.irrumatio@gmail.com or leave a message on Facebook at Pedicatio & Irrumatio. Before we set off on our journey of exploration of each other, you might want to visit my First Thoughts page to get an idea of what I'm thinking as I create this special interest blog. You may also find the page About Pedicatio & Irrumatio interesting. The Contact Me form is a valuable resource for you to use if you'd like to contact me about a particular issue or just to provide feedback. Please feel free to...