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Why men should prefer partners more mature, older than themselves.

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Advance Tip on an Upcoming Article I am going to write about this important topic from the standpoint of the more mature partner's role as mentor, protector, stabilizer for the younger man. When I refer to a younger man, I won't be writing about man-boy love or men who are not at a psychological or mental level of development that allows them to move beyond childish infatuation or adolescent confusion; I will be discussing younger men who are well-adjusted, secure, good in their skins, and who have self-respect and can take charge of their lives without having to be dependent. The older man is the partner who has the life experience and knowledge, practical and/or academic, and the wisdom to be mentor to the younger man. This type of relationship is built on a concept of beauty and eroticism expressed in trusting and awareness, surrender to each other in physical and emotional, as well as spiritual touching and sharing; both explore the other, surrendering himself to the other ...

Age is Beauty: Benefits of Younger-Older Relationships

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Older Men are Simply HOT! When I see a salt-and-pepper handsome face, healthy, a little arrogant, well-groomed and cared for, has a bit of spunk in his stride, looks like he takes pride in his mind and body, his spirit sends that message. He's HOT! Please note: The complete article has been moved to the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch website . Please visit that site to access the complete updated article. If you experience any trouble accessing the new website, please email Gay Daka Karuna (William) and request access authorization. I often find it a bit incomprehensible that some guys are interested in twinks or 20-somethings, and seem to be so uninterested in older guys. It just seems so much more natural and sensible for someone to be attracted to a handsome, fit, daddy than to an immature, confused twit. I've already written a piece on agism and playing the stupid numbers game and how shallow and useless it is. All that having been said, it's sometimes just necessar...

The Numbers Game: Agism

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Aren't you sick and tired of "friends" asking "How old are you?" I am.   Please note: The complete article has been moved to the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch website . Please visit that site to access the complete updated article. If you experience any trouble accessing the new website, please email Gay Daka Karuna (William) and request access authorization. If we are to get out of this moral and spiritual cesspool we've gotten ourselves into, we are going to have to re-form our images of ourselves and our perceptions of others. We have to recognize the reality of who we are as individuals and as members of a common cosmos.We have to acknowledge what we are as ephemeral temporal material beings subject to the ravages of time and the wear and tear of simply living. We have to accept that what we are in this moment is completely other than what we will be in the next moment. Even as you read these words, you are irreversibly changing; there's no turn...