Men Need to Learn How to Touch Other Men

Three new articles on homoerotic touch and touching have been added to the available learning materials on Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch.

Learn How to Touch Other Men with Ecstasy

The articles are part of the Homoerotic Tantra:Mascul-IN-Touch program materials offered to followers and registered users of the program. The new titles include:

• Working with Vulnerability through Tantric Touch
• The Components of Skillful Homoerotic Tāntric Touch
• Taking Touch and Giving Touch
• Erotic Touch — Creating Homoerotic Ecstasy with Touch

Summary of the Articles

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The Components of Skillful Homoerotic Tāntric Touch:  The Components of Skillful Homoerotic Tāntric Touch. To understand Tāntric touching skills you must understand the science and philosophies of traditional yoga (योग), some understanding of Āyurveda (आयुर्वेद), and certainly the philosophy and science of Tantra (तन्त्र); if the sādhaka (साधक) is not familiar at least superficially with these śāstra-s, he will find it extremely difficult to fully acquire the skills necessary to receive the greatest benefit from his efforts, and to gift the greatest benefit to his Tāntric Lover.

Working with Vulnerability through Tantric Touch: If you are practicing homoerotic yogic Tantra with authenticity, discipline, and firm intention, you will come to realize that touch extends far beyond your fingertips. You touch your Tāntric Lover in every aspect of his being: physical, mental/emotional, psychospiritually. And, yes, it follows that your Tāntric Lover should be open to you, that is, vulnerable to you in all three of these aspects. It is also true that the Tāntric Lover relationship is mutual and reciprocal; you affect your Tāntric Lover and he affects you in like manner. These effects are both giving (taking) and receiving, intended and unintended, desirable and undesirable, conscious and unconscious. Being aware of this interaction is an important step in your evolution. It is also a good reason to be talking about touch together with boundaries.

Taking Touch and Giving Touch:  Many men  —  straight and gay — grew up with a culturally conditioned sexual identity that resembled more a masculinity found in X-rated movies. Growing up, many men would have to admit that most of their self-image was created for them by what they heard their friends talking about. Most of that conditioning had very little to do with masculinity and masculine well-being and more to do with performance, power, and control. Many of us found that that was not who we were, and we were becoming more focused on what we really wanted: More.

Creating Homoerotic Ecstasy with Touch: ur hands are very possibly the most incredible sensuous parts of the giving physical body and yet we have so little appreciation of how we can use them to communicate with the Tāntric Lover. Even more surprising is that when we think of touching, we think only of the hands, and we neglect how we touch with tongue, teeth, lips, feet, the whole body, words, gestures, and even with the breath.

When we practice homoerotic Tāntra in our rituals and practices, we learn how to communicate with the language of touch, and how to use first the hands and fingers, and then, once they have worked their esoteric magic, we incorporate the other touch tools, including the entire body to intimately stimulate and awaken the Tāntric Lover’s erotic subtle energies, and to arouse him, give him the experience of delight, and then to draw him into ecstasy in the Divine Union, maithuna (मैथुन), the great melting into the other.

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