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Penetration and Transfiguration: Entering Your Partner's Sacred Sanctuary.
How We Should Approach the Homoerotic Tantric Session.


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When we see the word "penetrate" we see a word that means control, a violence. Penetration is forced entry into a space; there's nothing loving or gentle about it. It's wrongfully associated with masculinity for no good reason. Penetration, control, violence, brutality has no place in erotic expression between two men.



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As gay men, as men in general, we have to stop the stressful and unfair thinking that we have always to control something, always be rough and raw; there's nothing "masculine" about any of that. In fact, the ideal of masculine beauty was one of proportion, evenness, smoothness, balance. Yes, I said masculine beauty. The male has always been worshipped as perfect, complete form. When we as gay men feel unfulfilled, or our self-esteem and feelings of worth are diminished by feminists, employers, even our institutions, the resulting anger causes some of us to want to dominate another man, or have to perform like an endurance Olympian we are on a slippery slope to missing any real pleasure or joy in our sex life!

"How big is your dick?" is a common Facebook question. My response is "Why? How big does it have to be?" After all, it’s not the size of the bone but how you bury it that counts. Nobody seems to know the answer to my "Why?" question. Did the asker have a particular size in mind, a particular length and girth? Like a shoe size? Rather than ask, "How big is your manhole?" I just let it go. In my articles on anal sex and prostate massage, dick size is irrelevant; unless you're involved with a pervert who needs to have his asshole ripped and enjoys pain for some reason. I deal only in pleasure, love and joy, and leave the pain and trauma to the size queens and the pervs.

Low self-esteem, the inability to experience love and joy in sex, the need to dominate or to perform, leads some gay sex gurus to carelessly use the word "penetrate," or worse still “active” or “passive” when referring to sex partners. Those are very poor choices to describe what should be a sharing, uniting experience for both partners. I would rather my readers start thinking of "entering your partner's sanctuary" or “melting into your partner.” Your partner must be treated as a temple, somewhere you go to worship. You should start treating him as if he were something holy, sacred; because he is. When you touch him, touch him reverently and with tender respect just as you would a sacred vessel or a rare work of art. When you taste him taste him like sacramental wine and holy bread; savour him as you would a gourmet feast. When you enjoy his scents treat those fragrances like sweet incense, the bouquet of a fine wine, or a rare perfume. When you gaze upon him see him as light and color beneath the form of his body; enter his soul through his hungry eyes and feed it with your loving gaze. Listen to the magical music of life and his response to your presence for him by listening to his breathing, his vocalizations, his heartbeat. When you touch him and enter him allow your body and his body to feel his warmth, his wetness, his energy; surrender yourself to him. There's ecstatic pleasure, joy, and a mystical experience if you approach him this way.

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