Go ahead and kill the conversation. Ask "How old are you?"
Don't ask me "How old are you?
Ask me "How young are you?"
Even better, DON'T EVEN ASK!
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I really believe in honesty, trust, vulnerability, love. I hope I've made that impression in my posts on this blog.
I also have a deep aversion to stereotypes and to ignorance. I hope I've mad that impression in my posts on this blog, too.
I'm also convinced of and committed to the value of older-younger relationships, and I hope I have made that clear, as well.
I average about 1000 new friend requests each month on Facebook. I've tried to filter out a lot of the new requests by asking that only men between 25 and 50 respond, and that the languages be kept to English, German, French, Italian and Spanish. I think that’s fair because I do want to respond to chats and messages but if I respond and the person at the other end doesn’t do any of my languages, were both screwed and disappointed. I think that being honest and up front saves everyone a lot of stress and disappointment.
My response usually puts an end to the communication
Another pet peeve that I have is when I respond to a message or a chat and I get hit with the idiotic question, “How old are you?” My response usually puts an end to the communication and I terminate the chat or the message exchange. Why? Because, as I’ve said a number of times on this blog, I don’t play the numbers game. I don’t care about age, income, number of men you’re juggling, how many fake friends you have, or anything other than who you are and whether you are on the right path. As soon as you ask me “How old are you?” I know who you are and that you’re on the wrong path.
In a healthy relationship age doesn’t matter.
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